He said he’d need to “see what his finances look like” -- and then a week later, he broke up with me via text.

Dear Proposing: First and foremost, it sounds like you dodged a bullet. Thank goodness he didn’t say yes. With that being said, I don’t think there is anything wrong with a woman proposing to a man. We are living in 2025.

After nine years of waiting for him to propose, I finally decided to take matters into my own hands and popped the question myself. His response? He said he’d need to “see what his finances look like” -- and then a week later,

"What are your thoughts on situations like this? Should women ever propose, or does this only set them up for heartbreak if the feelings aren’t mutual?"

Should women ever propose, or does this only set them up for heartbreak if the feelings aren’t mutual? -- Women Proposing Dear Proposing: First and foremost, it sounds like you dodged a bullet. Thank goodness he didn’t say yes.